Have you ever tried thinking positive? Even in the most unbearable situations, try to just think positive. Positive thinking is something that affects you mentally and physically. When a person has a positive attitude, it is more likely that that person will be a lot more satisfied with the outcome of his/her situation. Sure things will get tough, but that happens for everyone. There was once a saying that went,"when you surround yourself by positive thinkers then you become a positive thinker." Find out who your true friends are, if you have not already, and surround yourself with the ones who have positive mindsets that will not discourage you. You will greatly appreciate the positive atmosphere that you place yourself in.